USE WORDS
It makes me sad when I have a couple that comes to me for counseling in crisis, when the relationship is already in its death throes. People come in seeking a panacea to all the years of damage to...
View Articlethe best words come from your mouth, not your fingers.
A client just informed me in no uncertain terms that Facebook is responsible for the downfall of human relationships. Agree or disagree?Personally, I disagree, but then again, I don't use it for any...
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View ArticleNew Class Ideas....
I'm considering adding some new classes, as well as adding an online video option for the classes I already teach so that people can learn this stuff with me from a distance. Let me know if you'd be...
View ArticlePassive-Aggressive Behavior is the worst
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View ArticleBaby Blues
I loveloveLOVE being a mommy. I look at Zoe and my heart explodes with the kind of love I literally had no idea was possible. This may sound silly, but I am entirely certain that she was a meant-to-be...
View ArticleUPDATED CLASS SCHEDULE!!!!!!!!!!
Regularly Scheduled ClassesUse Words (aka Say What The F*** You Mean)Saturday, 3/4 1-3 p.m. Practical, real-life strategies for communicating more clearly and confidently The art of apologizing (and...
View ArticleNEW SERVICE: Distance Coaching
Readers of my blog frequently contact me for distance coaching from faraway lands (like Oklahoma and Texas, most recently). Historically, I've declined for a variety of reasons, but for 2017 I've...
View ArticleUPDATES ON NEW PHONE COACHING
So, I tried it, and it didn't suck. I have had four distance coaching sessions since I posted the update a couple of weeks ago, and each one went really well. It helped that they were all NF types, so...
View ArticleAdvice for Online Dating
I have a lot of clients who are, with varying degrees of effort and success, attempting to find relationships via online dating resources. They're on Match, OK Cupid, PoF, Tinder, Bumble (to name a...
View ArticleGentle Reminder
I hate to come at people with "shoulds" but I think this one is important for us all to be reminded of on occasion: **Healthy relationships should be relatively easy.** It should not feel like a ton of...
View ArticleDifferentiating between the NF types 101
All the iNtuitive Feeler types have a strong idealistic streak and a desire to make the world a better place. They are all, to varying degrees, empathetic, caring, curious about people, and interested...
View ArticleThe difference between INFJ and INFP
The reason INFJ and INFP are not actually similar and so you can't be "sometimes one and sometimes the other" is because of this:.......THIS CONTENT HAS MOVED TO ITS NEW BLOG HOME!!!!! PLEASE COME WITH...
View Article"Sister" types
Here's another reason MBTI (the test) is bullshit: the closest relative of each type is often not super similar according to the dichotomies of F/T and N/S. We often see the 16 types grouped into 4...
View ArticleSensing v. Intuiting
IF YOU HAVE A HARD TIME COMMUNICATING WITH YOUR PARTNER, READ THIS AND THEN SEND ME MONEY FOR SAVING YOUR MARRIAGE: While I fundamentally believe that any two people can *make* a relationship *work*,...
View ArticleDon't be a jerk...But if you are already being one, stop.
http://www.sunnyskyz.com/blog.php?blogid=610%2FI-Wasn-t-Treating-My-Husband-Fairly-And-It-Wasn-t-FairI wrote this as a comment a few years ago on someone else's page, (where the blog was shared with...
View ArticleSPRING 2017 CLASS SCHEDULE
Updated Class Schedule: Spring 2017Personality Types 101: Saturday, April 81-3 p.m. This classes serves as an introduction to Myers-Briggs Personality Type and Jungian temperament theory. It includes...
View ArticleINFP/INFJ relationship
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View ArticleINFJ/ENFP relationship
INFJ and ENFP are basically the perfect pairing for friendship and/or romance, and here's why: They both lead with information-gathering (iNtuition) so they are both, first and foremost, curious about...
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Spring Clean Your Emotional House
Spring Special for Newsletter Subscribers!(Must be STL local; these specials don't apply to distance coaching) (If you're not a newsletter subscriber, click here to add your email to our mailing list....
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INFP mantra for the day...
I invite everyone, but **ESPECIALLY my INFP people** to always try and remember the following mantras: mistakes do not equate to failurethere is no such thing as perfectionfeelings are not factsyou are...
View ArticleAdvice for the day
If you are hurt by someone, or you don't understand why a person is behaving how they are, or what made them say the thing they said how they said it, etc, ASK THEM WITH WORDS. Be curious, not...
View ArticleHow To Do Conflict Well (aka Don't be an A-hole)
I've been teaching classes/mini workshops lately regarding communication, because I believe it's the #1 most important aspect of a healthy relationship. One of the things I focus on is how to do...
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Class Schedule For Fall 2019
Only a few classes remain for the 2019 year! How To Do Conflict Well:Saturday, 10/5 1-3 p.m. Boundaries: Saturday, November 9 1-3 p.m. Use Words: Saturday, December 7 1-3 p.m. All classes are $55 or...
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